Every January 1st: “This is the year. I’m losing weight.”
Every February 1st: “Well crap.”
I’ve learned not to do New Year’s resolutions. Usually when they are drafted, I’m filled with so much hope. I’m generally coming off a few days rest between Christmas and New Year’s day. I’m optimistic the next year will be different.
I fail to ask why it will be different. It won’t be different on its own. You see, and this may come as a bit of a shock, there is nothing magical about January. Nothing.
That’s why New Year’s resolutions never work. We don’t take steps ahead of time and plan to do the things required to be different. 2011 was very different for me because I had a plan well before January 1st. This year is the same. I have some lofty goals for 2012. I started working on those goals months ago.
Am I going to lose weight this year? Yes.
Am I going to make more money this year? Yes.
Am I going to spend more time with my family this year? Yes.
But only because these are more than just goals. These are fully realized plans I’ve been working on for a while. I figure if you aren’t several steps down the road to completing your plan by January 1st, it probably won’t be any different by December 31st.
But maybe that’s just me. Maybe everyone else always achieves their New Year’s resolutions…